Raising with the village

#11 - Liz - Choosing IVF Alone: A Raw and Honest Story of Lone Parenthood (Part 2)

Maeva Season 1 Episode 11

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In this second part of Liz’s journey, we continue her story following IVF treatment and move into the first three months of pregnancy as a lone parent.

This is a deeply honest and emotionally rich conversation. Liz speaks with extraordinary openness about the uncertainty of early pregnancy after IVF, the emotional weight of waiting for results, and the realities that are so often left out of public conversations around conception and early gestation.

⚠️ Content note: This episode includes discussion of pregnancy loss and miscarriage. Please listen with care and at a time that feels right for you.

In this episode, we talk about:

  • What happens immediately after egg retrieval and fertilisation updates
  • The emotional rollercoaster of early IVF pregnancy
  • Living through the first trimester with uncertainty and guarded hope
  • Pregnancy after loss and how it shapes decision-making and expectations
  • The mental load of going through early pregnancy as a lone parent
  • The gap between how pregnancy is often portrayed vs. how it can actually feel
  • Allowing space for fear, grief, hope and resilience at the same time

Liz shares her experience in real time, emotionally and unfiltered — offering listeners a rare, intimate look at early pregnancy after IVF and the parts many people carry privately.

Pregnancy loss & miscarriage support:
• Tommy’s — baby loss support, information, midwife helpline and pregnancy resources: https://www.tommys.org/baby-loss-support/

 • The Miscarriage Association — support, helpline & chat for anyone affected by miscarriage: https://www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/

 • Sands — support for anyone affected by the loss of a baby before, during or after birth: https://www.sands.org.uk/


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